Russian News!
Hot off the press. Dr Chentsova is developing a business plan with all the trimmings and in accord with her great team of lay leaders. Why is this big news?
Under the Communist rule, no one, repeat; NO ONE was allowed to set goals, plan, develop a mission or vision. In fact, to show any initiative was an invitation to a free trip to Siberia and a prison term doing hard labor in a gulag.
Since 1991 I have been trying to help the Russians learn how to take initiative and develop plans to run their own ministry teams. This is basic in America but radical stuff in Russia for it has never, ever been done before. This is an illustration of why it is so difficult to get the Russians to develop healthy teams. Everything, including church ministry, was commanded by the top officials.
Lifeways Russia is doing nation building. Russia cannot succeed as a democracy without a Christian revival.
Pray for us and donate to the Russian fund generously.
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Tuesday, October 19, 2004
Funny Video Art
Slate has a hilarious (and hilariously long) video outtake of John Edwards fussing with his hair. It's part of a collection assembled by comedian Harry Shearer, now on display at a Washington art gallery.
Slate's comment on the Edwards clip:
"For a guy who's been known derisively to the Bush crowd as the Breck girl," observes Shearer, vice presidential candidate John Edwards seems "way too interested in his hair." He tries to straighten it with his fingers. A makeup technician approaches with a comb, but the senator likes it just so and does the combing himself. He signals he's ready for hair spray by closing his eyes expectantly, like a child. Then Edwards and the technician straighten a little more with their fingers. Please don't tell me that thing in his hand is a compact. Oh, dear. It is.
Slate has a hilarious (and hilariously long) video outtake of John Edwards fussing with his hair. It's part of a collection assembled by comedian Harry Shearer, now on display at a Washington art gallery.
Slate's comment on the Edwards clip:
"For a guy who's been known derisively to the Bush crowd as the Breck girl," observes Shearer, vice presidential candidate John Edwards seems "way too interested in his hair." He tries to straighten it with his fingers. A makeup technician approaches with a comb, but the senator likes it just so and does the combing himself. He signals he's ready for hair spray by closing his eyes expectantly, like a child. Then Edwards and the technician straighten a little more with their fingers. Please don't tell me that thing in his hand is a compact. Oh, dear. It is.
Monday, October 18, 2004
We are on the Move
It was a bit over 15 years ago when LifeWay Hospital and Clinic opened its doors to provide Christ-centered therapy for hurting men and women. Our in-patient unit was located in a beautiful wing of the Emerson A. North Hospital in College Hill. It was owned by the Franciscan Sisters whose Mission Statement was, "To continue the healing ministry of Jesus Christ."
We opened four other offices over the years and closed the hospital unit. I also launched a new ministry to pastors and churches called LifeWay Ministries that equips lay people around the world. We have seen many, many changes.
The LifeWay Counseling Center office and clinic was providentially located on Route 42 and I-275 midway between 71 and 75. There we have remained until this week when we move to Blue Ash. (See www.lifewaycenters.com for directions)
We have purchased a business condo that is better in many ways than our present location.
We will be open for business on Monday, October 25.
513-769-4600
513-789-0304 (Fax)
It was a bit over 15 years ago when LifeWay Hospital and Clinic opened its doors to provide Christ-centered therapy for hurting men and women. Our in-patient unit was located in a beautiful wing of the Emerson A. North Hospital in College Hill. It was owned by the Franciscan Sisters whose Mission Statement was, "To continue the healing ministry of Jesus Christ."
We opened four other offices over the years and closed the hospital unit. I also launched a new ministry to pastors and churches called LifeWay Ministries that equips lay people around the world. We have seen many, many changes.
The LifeWay Counseling Center office and clinic was providentially located on Route 42 and I-275 midway between 71 and 75. There we have remained until this week when we move to Blue Ash. (See www.lifewaycenters.com for directions)
We have purchased a business condo that is better in many ways than our present location.
- We are more easily accessed from Ronald Reagan, 71 and 75.
- It is designed to be a counseling center.
- It is a quiet, secluded and peaceful area in Blue Ash.
- We are on the first floor with easy entry and surroundings.
- We have a special prayer/meditation room in the center of the facility.
- There is a conference/group room for teaching, meetings and ministry.
- The offices are soundproof, beautiful and warmly decorated.
We will be open for business on Monday, October 25.
513-769-4600
513-789-0304 (Fax)
Wednesday, October 13, 2004
Political Debates
After watching and reading about the current presidential kerfuffle, I am struck by the reporters' aversion to plain speaking. The media consistently describes both Senator Jerry and President Bush as being "harsh, attacking, mean, bitter and cruel". I have several observations:
1. Political debates need to be hard hitting and truthful challenges based on ideas, facts and a search for truth. These things may hurt the other person's feelings.
2. Many reporters do not want truth and factual debates but a harmonious love fest that obscures reality.
3. Christians have guidance on this issue from scripture. It tells us that by "Speaking the truth in love we can grow up in every way... (Eph 4:15) This is the very best approach to a good debate for it balances facts and reality with compassion and unselfishness.
The biblical standard is not easy but we can, with the Holy Spirit, get close. In Matthew, Jesus discusses in detail how we are to handle difficult issues that can cause anger, bitterness and revenge.
5:21 "You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.'
22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment.
Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,' is answerable to the Sanhedrin.
But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell.
The Great Teacher lays out a well defined, three step approach to public and private disputes.
Step One, anger is dangerous, so be careful. However, it can also be helpful if it energizes us enough to clean up a relationship and speak the truth in love with a personal COMPLAINT that goes something like this: "I do not agree with my opponent's position on abortion. Here is my position and why."
Step Two, if we don't handle anger it will get worse, enter the yellow zone and turn into accusations and personal attacks. At step two Jesus uses the term; Raca, stupid, dumb or mentally deficient and will lead us to be judged ourselves. "My opponent is just ignorant about abortion and is not smart enough to understand its outcomes."
Step Three the red hot zone of a character assassination that leads to hell either figuratively or actually. "My opponent loves to punish women by denying them abortion rights for he is a racist woman hater." Or, "My opponent enjoys killing babies and is a racist who is trying to eliminate African Americans."
As you watch the debates and listen to the candidates, learn to distinguish among these three approaches. Sometimes the challenge is a Complaint that says, "I disagree with ___." That is legitimate even when reporters do not like it. However, when pols say things like, "He is a liar, a cheat, a coward, a malcontent or a deserter" they have stepped over the line.
23 "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.
One of the highlights in the current election came when President Bush was asked about Senator Kerry's war record. The President answered by saying, "Mr. Kerry was more courageous than I. He served honorably and put himself in harm's way and I never did." A low time came when VP Cheney cursed out a member of the Congress.
Comments on this or any article?
After watching and reading about the current presidential kerfuffle, I am struck by the reporters' aversion to plain speaking. The media consistently describes both Senator Jerry and President Bush as being "harsh, attacking, mean, bitter and cruel". I have several observations:
1. Political debates need to be hard hitting and truthful challenges based on ideas, facts and a search for truth. These things may hurt the other person's feelings.
2. Many reporters do not want truth and factual debates but a harmonious love fest that obscures reality.
3. Christians have guidance on this issue from scripture. It tells us that by "Speaking the truth in love we can grow up in every way... (Eph 4:15) This is the very best approach to a good debate for it balances facts and reality with compassion and unselfishness.
The biblical standard is not easy but we can, with the Holy Spirit, get close. In Matthew, Jesus discusses in detail how we are to handle difficult issues that can cause anger, bitterness and revenge.
5:21 "You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.'
22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment.
Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,' is answerable to the Sanhedrin.
But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell.
The Great Teacher lays out a well defined, three step approach to public and private disputes.
Step One, anger is dangerous, so be careful. However, it can also be helpful if it energizes us enough to clean up a relationship and speak the truth in love with a personal COMPLAINT that goes something like this: "I do not agree with my opponent's position on abortion. Here is my position and why."
Step Two, if we don't handle anger it will get worse, enter the yellow zone and turn into accusations and personal attacks. At step two Jesus uses the term; Raca, stupid, dumb or mentally deficient and will lead us to be judged ourselves. "My opponent is just ignorant about abortion and is not smart enough to understand its outcomes."
Step Three the red hot zone of a character assassination that leads to hell either figuratively or actually. "My opponent loves to punish women by denying them abortion rights for he is a racist woman hater." Or, "My opponent enjoys killing babies and is a racist who is trying to eliminate African Americans."
As you watch the debates and listen to the candidates, learn to distinguish among these three approaches. Sometimes the challenge is a Complaint that says, "I disagree with ___." That is legitimate even when reporters do not like it. However, when pols say things like, "He is a liar, a cheat, a coward, a malcontent or a deserter" they have stepped over the line.
23 "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.
One of the highlights in the current election came when President Bush was asked about Senator Kerry's war record. The President answered by saying, "Mr. Kerry was more courageous than I. He served honorably and put himself in harm's way and I never did." A low time came when VP Cheney cursed out a member of the Congress.
Comments on this or any article?
Sunday, October 10, 2004
The Web of Life
Two smash hit children/s movies released in the past few years are The Lion King and Finding Nemo. I like each of them a lot for they teach some great lessons about respect for life and the Webb of life.
In Lion King all life has worth. When the evil uncle kills his brother, The Lion King, and blames it on his nephew, he is clearly shown as an evil villain. In many places there are songs and teachings on the importance of the Webb of life and the importance of every living animal in that Webb.
Sometimes it gets a bit too much of the New Age in style but the current culture of death in America today needs a strong dose of childrens' resources to turn the tide.
Nemo has an opening scene that is very pro life. Nemo's father and mother are excitedly anticipating the arrival of new babies after mommy plants all her eggs just outside their cave home. Unfortunately, a big, strong fish swoops down and eats momma and all the eggs but one. That one egg becomes Nemo and the rest of the movie depicts Marlin frantically trying to save him from all kinds of dangers. He learns to be resiient and to keep trying despite the odds against him.
Movies are powerful communicators of values and ideas. Find those that teach your kids about the importance of love, life and respect. It is not too late to prevent them from killing us when we are old.
Two smash hit children/s movies released in the past few years are The Lion King and Finding Nemo. I like each of them a lot for they teach some great lessons about respect for life and the Webb of life.
In Lion King all life has worth. When the evil uncle kills his brother, The Lion King, and blames it on his nephew, he is clearly shown as an evil villain. In many places there are songs and teachings on the importance of the Webb of life and the importance of every living animal in that Webb.
Sometimes it gets a bit too much of the New Age in style but the current culture of death in America today needs a strong dose of childrens' resources to turn the tide.
Nemo has an opening scene that is very pro life. Nemo's father and mother are excitedly anticipating the arrival of new babies after mommy plants all her eggs just outside their cave home. Unfortunately, a big, strong fish swoops down and eats momma and all the eggs but one. That one egg becomes Nemo and the rest of the movie depicts Marlin frantically trying to save him from all kinds of dangers. He learns to be resiient and to keep trying despite the odds against him.
Movies are powerful communicators of values and ideas. Find those that teach your kids about the importance of love, life and respect. It is not too late to prevent them from killing us when we are old.
Reverence for Life or Culture for Death?
Every time I try to watch Chris Matthews on Hard Ball I get frustrated. His shoot from the hip arrogance on issues he obviously knows little about is irritating. He is the poster boy for "Often wrong but never in doubt."
Tonight, Sunday, October 10, one of the panel members noted that Kerry's response at the last debate about abortion was "wishy washy" or something similar. Chris interrupted, of course, and proceeded to correct the guy. He then lectured us on how social issues about the sanctity of life should be kept out of politics. He went on to quote the Bible, "Give unto Caesar..."
The right to life is protected by the Constitution and the Constitution was founded on the Bible. However, the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are not only for Jews and Christians.
Why do we say Hitler was wrong for killing millions? He had no reverence for life.
Does Chris mean that any politician that reverences life is crossing the church-state barrier? Almost all our laws come from our Judeo-Christian heritage. Civil rights come from scripture certainly not evolution. We Christians protect the weak and vulnerable while evolution promotes survival only of the fittest. That legal protection comes straight from scripture not from science.
Why did John Kerry think killing in Viet Nam was wrong? Was it based on evolution or Catholic moral reasoning? Roman Catholic teaching found in scripture.
Perhaps Chris is better at knowing scripture than Howard Dean. Dean placed his favorite book of the Bible, Jonah, in the New Testament and written by two different people. That is amazing scholarship! I just got out an old, dusty Bible and, voila, Jonah is still in the Old Testament.
Chris, why not follow the moral teachings of your church and admit that taking innocent life is wrong? All current Protestants who support the protection of innocent life do so as the result of reading Roman Catholic scholars. Are we Protestants more consistent with the Catholic teachings than you and Kerry?
The Lord says, "I set before you death or life. Therefore, choose life."
How should this nation be remembered? As a place where the lonely, sick and weakest of our citizens could find refuge or where the strong can take the lives of the weak for any reason whatsoever? The two candidates make the choice very clear.
Every time I try to watch Chris Matthews on Hard Ball I get frustrated. His shoot from the hip arrogance on issues he obviously knows little about is irritating. He is the poster boy for "Often wrong but never in doubt."
Tonight, Sunday, October 10, one of the panel members noted that Kerry's response at the last debate about abortion was "wishy washy" or something similar. Chris interrupted, of course, and proceeded to correct the guy. He then lectured us on how social issues about the sanctity of life should be kept out of politics. He went on to quote the Bible, "Give unto Caesar..."
The right to life is protected by the Constitution and the Constitution was founded on the Bible. However, the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are not only for Jews and Christians.
Why do we say Hitler was wrong for killing millions? He had no reverence for life.
Does Chris mean that any politician that reverences life is crossing the church-state barrier? Almost all our laws come from our Judeo-Christian heritage. Civil rights come from scripture certainly not evolution. We Christians protect the weak and vulnerable while evolution promotes survival only of the fittest. That legal protection comes straight from scripture not from science.
Why did John Kerry think killing in Viet Nam was wrong? Was it based on evolution or Catholic moral reasoning? Roman Catholic teaching found in scripture.
Perhaps Chris is better at knowing scripture than Howard Dean. Dean placed his favorite book of the Bible, Jonah, in the New Testament and written by two different people. That is amazing scholarship! I just got out an old, dusty Bible and, voila, Jonah is still in the Old Testament.
Chris, why not follow the moral teachings of your church and admit that taking innocent life is wrong? All current Protestants who support the protection of innocent life do so as the result of reading Roman Catholic scholars. Are we Protestants more consistent with the Catholic teachings than you and Kerry?
The Lord says, "I set before you death or life. Therefore, choose life."
How should this nation be remembered? As a place where the lonely, sick and weakest of our citizens could find refuge or where the strong can take the lives of the weak for any reason whatsoever? The two candidates make the choice very clear.
Wednesday, October 06, 2004
Local Christian Resources
Pastor Russ Smith of Covenant Presbyterian Church, the oldest Protestant church in Cincinnati, has placed a web link to the Cincinnati Art Museum Exhibit about Petra:Lost City of Stone. Check it out on the resources page of www.covfirstchurch.org
Tell your friends about it and let Russ know what you think. He wants to create more cultural resources if it works well.
Now that the Freedom Museum is open is would be good totake a tour of it. The Freedom Train was built and run by Christians.
Pastor Russ Smith of Covenant Presbyterian Church, the oldest Protestant church in Cincinnati, has placed a web link to the Cincinnati Art Museum Exhibit about Petra:Lost City of Stone. Check it out on the resources page of www.covfirstchurch.org
Tell your friends about it and let Russ know what you think. He wants to create more cultural resources if it works well.
Now that the Freedom Museum is open is would be good totake a tour of it. The Freedom Train was built and run by Christians.
Faith Based Health
Almost everyone agrees that attending the church of your choice is healthy. The more we attend, the healthier we get. But, healthiness is not limited to less disease. It also leads to healthier behavior. Research recently published online says:
Involvement in faith-based programs, school clubs, and sports positively influences youth not to use alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. Students who are involved in faith-based programs, school clubs, or sports are more than 50% less likely to use substances than students not involved in these activities.
Data reported are from the third iteration of the Coalition for a Drug-Free Greater Cincinnati's Student Personal Drug Use Survey, which is conducted every two years.
The 2004 survey included over 64,000 students from 186 public and private schools in 10 counties in Ohio, Kentucky, and Indiana.
To access the entire dataset, please visit http://www.oasis.uc.edu/. For more information, please contact Rhonda Ramsey-Molina, President of the Coalition for a Drug-Free Greater Cincinnati.
I recently heard NPR attack President George Bush for promoting faith-based support groups. The reporter clearly failed to share the numerous research studies about faith and healthy behavior as well as recovery. It is up to us to get the word out. Despite having research facilities that can dig these things out NPR failed to do so.
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I have been writing about the command of Jesus to "Go as lambs among wolves" and "bless people with peace/shalom." Now we can see why. Jesus wants everyone to have the chance to experience shalom or health, prosperity, wholeness, salvation, eternal life and safety.
Drugs, alcohol abuse, sexualy promiscuity, violence are modern wolves in sheeps clothing. Getting kids involved in Christian activities will defeat those wolves.
What should we do about NPR? Bless them with shalom.
Almost everyone agrees that attending the church of your choice is healthy. The more we attend, the healthier we get. But, healthiness is not limited to less disease. It also leads to healthier behavior. Research recently published online says:
Involvement in faith-based programs, school clubs, and sports positively influences youth not to use alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. Students who are involved in faith-based programs, school clubs, or sports are more than 50% less likely to use substances than students not involved in these activities.
Data reported are from the third iteration of the Coalition for a Drug-Free Greater Cincinnati's Student Personal Drug Use Survey, which is conducted every two years.
The 2004 survey included over 64,000 students from 186 public and private schools in 10 counties in Ohio, Kentucky, and Indiana.
To access the entire dataset, please visit http://www.oasis.uc.edu/. For more information, please contact Rhonda Ramsey-Molina, President of the Coalition for a Drug-Free Greater Cincinnati.
I recently heard NPR attack President George Bush for promoting faith-based support groups. The reporter clearly failed to share the numerous research studies about faith and healthy behavior as well as recovery. It is up to us to get the word out. Despite having research facilities that can dig these things out NPR failed to do so.
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
I have been writing about the command of Jesus to "Go as lambs among wolves" and "bless people with peace/shalom." Now we can see why. Jesus wants everyone to have the chance to experience shalom or health, prosperity, wholeness, salvation, eternal life and safety.
Drugs, alcohol abuse, sexualy promiscuity, violence are modern wolves in sheeps clothing. Getting kids involved in Christian activities will defeat those wolves.
What should we do about NPR? Bless them with shalom.
Tuesday, October 05, 2004
Peace or Shalom?
While visiting Israel many years ago I discovered that the term Shalom can be used both as a greeting and a salutation. I thought shalom simply meant peace but it has far stronger implications.
Peace implies a lack of conflict in English, and that is a very good thing. However, shalom means that plus much, much more.
Prosperity
Health
Wholeness of life
Abundance
Vigor
Resilience
Forgiveness of sin and guilt
Mercy
Grace
So, when Jesus sent out the 72 as lambs among wolves what did He mean when He said for them to bless the homes and businesses with shalom?
Was the focus on a cessation of conflict or more than that?
Did He really expect the wolves to receive forgiveness, mercy, grace, prosperity and all the good things of God? Is that reasonable?
Did the strategy work? (A hint: read on and see what happened.)
While visiting Israel many years ago I discovered that the term Shalom can be used both as a greeting and a salutation. I thought shalom simply meant peace but it has far stronger implications.
Peace implies a lack of conflict in English, and that is a very good thing. However, shalom means that plus much, much more.
Prosperity
Health
Wholeness of life
Abundance
Vigor
Resilience
Forgiveness of sin and guilt
Mercy
Grace
So, when Jesus sent out the 72 as lambs among wolves what did He mean when He said for them to bless the homes and businesses with shalom?
Was the focus on a cessation of conflict or more than that?
Did He really expect the wolves to receive forgiveness, mercy, grace, prosperity and all the good things of God? Is that reasonable?
Did the strategy work? (A hint: read on and see what happened.)
Multiplying Peace and Prosperity
In Luke 10 Jesus sent 72 of His closest Disciples out to bring good news to the surrounding neighborhoods. In the prior chapter he had sent out the 12 Apostles and they came back with great insights and wonderful learning experiences. Now it was time for those 12 to supervise three pairs so the circle of love could be expanded.
This is the Grand Strategy of the Great Teacher and it may be worthwhile for us to follow today.
What would happen if we followed the lead of Jesus and learned how to multiply ourselves in service, blessing and love every few months or even every few years? Would it make a difference in the world?
I have written about the devastation left in Russia and the Eastern Bloc by 70 years of ruinous rule by Socialists. By ordinary means it will take many generations to bring healing, emotional and spiritual vitality and economic strength to the people scarred by hate. Can the rate of change be sped up?
What is the best way to spread peace, prosperity and personal security is such places?
Read Luke 9 and 10 and you will discover the answer that God gave His Son. Jesus chose 12 and trained them for three years how to bless others. Then He taught them the principle of being world changers. Each one was to reproduce himself by training and sending six others.
12 x 6 = 72
72 x 6 = 432
432 x 6 = 2592
etc
Will exponential rather than additive growth make changing a culture, a nation or the world easier or faster?
Was Jesus naive when He failed to build a huge auditorium and draw thousands to His meetings?
In Luke 10 Jesus sent 72 of His closest Disciples out to bring good news to the surrounding neighborhoods. In the prior chapter he had sent out the 12 Apostles and they came back with great insights and wonderful learning experiences. Now it was time for those 12 to supervise three pairs so the circle of love could be expanded.
This is the Grand Strategy of the Great Teacher and it may be worthwhile for us to follow today.
What would happen if we followed the lead of Jesus and learned how to multiply ourselves in service, blessing and love every few months or even every few years? Would it make a difference in the world?
I have written about the devastation left in Russia and the Eastern Bloc by 70 years of ruinous rule by Socialists. By ordinary means it will take many generations to bring healing, emotional and spiritual vitality and economic strength to the people scarred by hate. Can the rate of change be sped up?
What is the best way to spread peace, prosperity and personal security is such places?
Read Luke 9 and 10 and you will discover the answer that God gave His Son. Jesus chose 12 and trained them for three years how to bless others. Then He taught them the principle of being world changers. Each one was to reproduce himself by training and sending six others.
12 x 6 = 72
72 x 6 = 432
432 x 6 = 2592
etc
Will exponential rather than additive growth make changing a culture, a nation or the world easier or faster?
Was Jesus naive when He failed to build a huge auditorium and draw thousands to His meetings?
Tuesday, September 28, 2004
The Young Are Conservative
I do not support or attack any candidate but I strongly support some issues. One of the most important issues we face in America is the Right to Life.
A few times ago I wrote about the unexpected outcomes from legislation. When the Supreme Court found an invisible amendment to the Constitution that requires this country to accept abortion, the left wing must have felt elated. However, one of the unexpected results of that action has been the steady rise in young conservatives. It seems that hose who abort their children are also killing social and political liberals.
For another interesting finding of the Post/ABC poll, look at this table, which shows the breakdown of registered voters' presidential preferences by age:
Age: Bush Kerry
18-30 53% 41%
31-44 50% 44%
45-60 53% 43%
61+ 48% 45%
Total 51% 44%
Bush's overall margin is 7%, but his 12% margin among 18- to 30-year-olds exceeds that of all other age groups. This is the group born since 1973, when the Supreme Court decided Roe v. Wade. The antiabortion candidate's lead among this group is another bit of evidence supporting the Roe effect.
I do not support or attack any candidate but I strongly support some issues. One of the most important issues we face in America is the Right to Life.
A few times ago I wrote about the unexpected outcomes from legislation. When the Supreme Court found an invisible amendment to the Constitution that requires this country to accept abortion, the left wing must have felt elated. However, one of the unexpected results of that action has been the steady rise in young conservatives. It seems that hose who abort their children are also killing social and political liberals.
For another interesting finding of the Post/ABC poll, look at this table, which shows the breakdown of registered voters' presidential preferences by age:
Age: Bush Kerry
18-30 53% 41%
31-44 50% 44%
45-60 53% 43%
61+ 48% 45%
Total 51% 44%
Bush's overall margin is 7%, but his 12% margin among 18- to 30-year-olds exceeds that of all other age groups. This is the group born since 1973, when the Supreme Court decided Roe v. Wade. The antiabortion candidate's lead among this group is another bit of evidence supporting the Roe effect.
Friday, September 24, 2004
From The Great Commission to The Great Commandment in Action
We have all heard about the Great Commission. It is found in Matthew 28:18 ff and consists of the last words of Jesus to His followers.
18 Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
This charge has been taken seriously by many believers for hundreds of years. It has resulted in millions hearing and responding to the good news.
However, about a year ago I discovered that Jesus also gave His disciples a simple strategy to follow to accomplish the goal of making disciples of all ethnic groups. That strategy is found in Luke 9 and 10. In Luke 9 Jesus sent the 12 out with His authority and power. In Luke 10 He called together 72 followers and gave them very direct and strategic directions for influencing the people around them.
Yesterday I mentioned that the harvest is ready and fully developed and all that is needed are more harvesters. Today we continue that story.
3 Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves. 4 Do not take a purse or bag or sandals; and do not greet anyone on the road.
Get going and behave like lambs among wolves. WOW! What a commandment! Was Jesus confused? Did He not know that wolves are the sworn, card carrying adversaries of lambs?
Had He forgotten that lambs are the favorite meat for all wolves? A lamb is clueless and helpless in the face of ravenous wolves. At least allow us to act like big horn sheep so we can fight back.
Today we face wolves in government. There are judges, legislators, political activists and immoral fanatics who would like to make America into Sodom and some who would turn it over to Saddam. How can we combat those wolves?
Boycotts?
Political action committees?
Preaching against these people?
What would a lamb do? (Read on if you dare!)
We have all heard about the Great Commission. It is found in Matthew 28:18 ff and consists of the last words of Jesus to His followers.
18 Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
This charge has been taken seriously by many believers for hundreds of years. It has resulted in millions hearing and responding to the good news.
However, about a year ago I discovered that Jesus also gave His disciples a simple strategy to follow to accomplish the goal of making disciples of all ethnic groups. That strategy is found in Luke 9 and 10. In Luke 9 Jesus sent the 12 out with His authority and power. In Luke 10 He called together 72 followers and gave them very direct and strategic directions for influencing the people around them.
Yesterday I mentioned that the harvest is ready and fully developed and all that is needed are more harvesters. Today we continue that story.
3 Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves. 4 Do not take a purse or bag or sandals; and do not greet anyone on the road.
Get going and behave like lambs among wolves. WOW! What a commandment! Was Jesus confused? Did He not know that wolves are the sworn, card carrying adversaries of lambs?
Had He forgotten that lambs are the favorite meat for all wolves? A lamb is clueless and helpless in the face of ravenous wolves. At least allow us to act like big horn sheep so we can fight back.
Today we face wolves in government. There are judges, legislators, political activists and immoral fanatics who would like to make America into Sodom and some who would turn it over to Saddam. How can we combat those wolves?
Boycotts?
Political action committees?
Preaching against these people?
What would a lamb do? (Read on if you dare!)
Thursday, September 23, 2004
Christian Responses to Terrorists
This is a tough issue. Believers have always suffered for the faith. There are more, many more, martyrs today than ever before in history. With the rise of Terrorist Islam the rate of martyrdom is increasing rapidly.
Despite the risks, Missionaries are still traveling to foreign nations to preach, teach and minister God's love along with nationals. In Luke 10 Jesus lays out a plan for evangelism.
1 After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. 2 He told them, "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. 3 Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves.
This is the very first mass example of Jesus modeling that which He would later say in Matthew 28 and which we call, "The Great Commission".
Here are the guidelines:
1. The harvest is plentiful. There are many, many people who want to follow Christ. It is a lie that evangelism does not work or is not needed. There are a billion Muslims in the world. Many want to know the story of Jesus.
2. The block to evangelism is a lack of workers not a lack of grain. This is not very apparent until we get involved in the harvest ourselves. Then we see just how many people want to know about God but we do not have enough time, energy and money to stay and tell them the story.
3. Pray for harvesters, (missionaries) who will tell the story. Pray not only for the harvest, (Muslims) but for evangelists as well. In Russia there are many former Muslims who are preaching the gospel. Can we not support them in prayer?
4. Go as lambs among wolves. This is tough. I prefer to go as a roaring lion not a gentle lamb. Wolves eat lambs. Lambs are weak and unprotected. They have no horns. Go in peace with love and hope. This is the way of the Master.
This is a tough issue. Believers have always suffered for the faith. There are more, many more, martyrs today than ever before in history. With the rise of Terrorist Islam the rate of martyrdom is increasing rapidly.
Despite the risks, Missionaries are still traveling to foreign nations to preach, teach and minister God's love along with nationals. In Luke 10 Jesus lays out a plan for evangelism.
1 After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. 2 He told them, "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. 3 Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves.
This is the very first mass example of Jesus modeling that which He would later say in Matthew 28 and which we call, "The Great Commission".
Here are the guidelines:
1. The harvest is plentiful. There are many, many people who want to follow Christ. It is a lie that evangelism does not work or is not needed. There are a billion Muslims in the world. Many want to know the story of Jesus.
2. The block to evangelism is a lack of workers not a lack of grain. This is not very apparent until we get involved in the harvest ourselves. Then we see just how many people want to know about God but we do not have enough time, energy and money to stay and tell them the story.
3. Pray for harvesters, (missionaries) who will tell the story. Pray not only for the harvest, (Muslims) but for evangelists as well. In Russia there are many former Muslims who are preaching the gospel. Can we not support them in prayer?
4. Go as lambs among wolves. This is tough. I prefer to go as a roaring lion not a gentle lamb. Wolves eat lambs. Lambs are weak and unprotected. They have no horns. Go in peace with love and hope. This is the way of the Master.
All Out War on the World
A recent interview with the terrorist master Zarqawi in a London paper is very revealing and shocking to many Americans and Christians who cannot imagine how callous these people are. I suggest that you click on the link below and read the interview.
http://www.memri.org/bin/latestnews.cgi?ID=SD78704
Interesting items are:
The goal is not Iraq but the entire Middle East and especially Jerusalem. It is important that we pray for Jerusalem.
The terrorists want to foment civil war in Iraq. They hate Muslims with varying theologies as much as Christians and Jews.
They say that killing innocent men and women is fine. However, in a move toward humility admit that maybe they should use guns instead of knives.
A recent interview with the terrorist master Zarqawi in a London paper is very revealing and shocking to many Americans and Christians who cannot imagine how callous these people are. I suggest that you click on the link below and read the interview.
http://www.memri.org/bin/latestnews.cgi?ID=SD78704
Interesting items are:
The goal is not Iraq but the entire Middle East and especially Jerusalem. It is important that we pray for Jerusalem.
The terrorists want to foment civil war in Iraq. They hate Muslims with varying theologies as much as Christians and Jews.
They say that killing innocent men and women is fine. However, in a move toward humility admit that maybe they should use guns instead of knives.
Monday, September 20, 2004
The Law of Unexpected Results
A government passes laws to get an effect but, in a surprisingly high percentage of cases, the opposite occurs. Singapore passed a law many years ago that taxed couples if they had more than two children. Now, birth rates are below rates required to replenish the population and the government is urging couples to have more babies.
The US government passes regulations requiring washing machines and dryers to use gas energy so they with from gas to electric heat thus making power plants use more fossil fuels to produce the electricity needed to run the newer machines. The result is the opposite of the desired outcome.
Liberals have passionately forced abortion rights on the country through leftist judges. Now it appears that conservative and religious couples are having more babies than liberals and these young people are increasingly voting against liberal agenda.
The following comes from a blog OpinionJournal@wsj.com
Leftist Columnists Disagree
Columnist Ellen Goodman says: I'm wary of numbers that may be, in the statisticians' terms "true, true, but unrelated." We live in a world that's been through tremendous technological and social change. The average woman in the world had 4.48 children in 1970 and has 2.69 now.
Anyone who thinks that a low birth rate produces a conservative takeover hasn't been to Italy lately. I am even far more dubious of the claim that political labels are handed down through the DNA or even around the dinner table. In our own swiftly changing country, parents who dutifully plant one ideological seed get some pretty different sprouts.
OpinionJournal@wsj.com says:
No one claims that all children come to hold exactly the same political views as their parents, but the premise of the Roe effect is a more modest claim: that in general, parents tend to be a strong influence on their children's political values. Does Goodman really disagree? It would seem so.
Oh, and incidentally, if Goodman is hoping, as she puts it, that "persuasion could be a match for procreation," she ought to take a look at some of the pro-choice arguments that are on offer to young people. The Web site PunkVoter.com offers an essay by songstress Theo Kogan that includes this prose poem:
As a person and as a WOMAN I value my freedom, whether its the freedom to speak out,to look the way I want,live the way I want, create art and music, choosing what I want to do with my body,whether it's my hair color,tattoos, piercing, squeezing a zit, plucking a hair or having an abortion.
Gary says:
No wonder the leftists are losing the battle for hearts and minds of people young and old. This kind of heartless, cruel, callous reasoning sounds like the Taliban or Muslims who kill Russian children.
We all need to be careful about the things we adopt to control the uncontrollable. As a Christian I am not sure that we ought to try to control things that only God can do.
A government passes laws to get an effect but, in a surprisingly high percentage of cases, the opposite occurs. Singapore passed a law many years ago that taxed couples if they had more than two children. Now, birth rates are below rates required to replenish the population and the government is urging couples to have more babies.
The US government passes regulations requiring washing machines and dryers to use gas energy so they with from gas to electric heat thus making power plants use more fossil fuels to produce the electricity needed to run the newer machines. The result is the opposite of the desired outcome.
Liberals have passionately forced abortion rights on the country through leftist judges. Now it appears that conservative and religious couples are having more babies than liberals and these young people are increasingly voting against liberal agenda.
The following comes from a blog OpinionJournal@wsj.com
Leftist Columnists Disagree
Columnist Ellen Goodman says: I'm wary of numbers that may be, in the statisticians' terms "true, true, but unrelated." We live in a world that's been through tremendous technological and social change. The average woman in the world had 4.48 children in 1970 and has 2.69 now.
Anyone who thinks that a low birth rate produces a conservative takeover hasn't been to Italy lately. I am even far more dubious of the claim that political labels are handed down through the DNA or even around the dinner table. In our own swiftly changing country, parents who dutifully plant one ideological seed get some pretty different sprouts.
OpinionJournal@wsj.com says:
No one claims that all children come to hold exactly the same political views as their parents, but the premise of the Roe effect is a more modest claim: that in general, parents tend to be a strong influence on their children's political values. Does Goodman really disagree? It would seem so.
Oh, and incidentally, if Goodman is hoping, as she puts it, that "persuasion could be a match for procreation," she ought to take a look at some of the pro-choice arguments that are on offer to young people. The Web site PunkVoter.com offers an essay by songstress Theo Kogan that includes this prose poem:
As a person and as a WOMAN I value my freedom, whether its the freedom to speak out,to look the way I want,live the way I want, create art and music, choosing what I want to do with my body,whether it's my hair color,tattoos, piercing, squeezing a zit, plucking a hair or having an abortion.
Gary says:
No wonder the leftists are losing the battle for hearts and minds of people young and old. This kind of heartless, cruel, callous reasoning sounds like the Taliban or Muslims who kill Russian children.
We all need to be careful about the things we adopt to control the uncontrollable. As a Christian I am not sure that we ought to try to control things that only God can do.
Saturday, September 18, 2004
International Ministry of Helps
How do you want America to be known around the world? We have the strongest army ever known in history. They do a wonderful job protecting th USA and fighting for us. The unfortunate events at the prison does not diminish the fine job done by 99% of our service people. Despite that, I do not want America known as a warring nation.
Our media output is amazing. Movies, TV programs, music, art works, you name it. We are prolific. However, much of it makes my skin crawl and embarrasses me as an American. I do not want the USA to be known primarily as the home of rap music and XXX rated movies.
We are rich. We have so many things. Cars, boats, houses, electronic toys, TV's, radios, MPEG players, etc. But that is not how I want the USA to be remembers around the world.
I want people to know us as loving, kind, gracious anf godly. Millions of your tax dollars are being used to send troops, rock music and propaganda to influence other nations. The best way to show them we care is by sending missionaries.
America as a whole is supporting international missions. Thanks to my readers and friends and their churches LifeWay has successfully taken the message of Jesus Christ to many nations. Thanks! Thanks! Thanks!
At age 66 I get physically tired and the jet lag is a problem but I cannot stop. God's love is so badly needed in Russia and Asia that I must go on. Because of our recent vigorous activities and support in Russia, however, our finances are very low. If you can get LifeWay placed in your churches budget we would greatly appreciate it.
How do you want America to be known around the world? We have the strongest army ever known in history. They do a wonderful job protecting th USA and fighting for us. The unfortunate events at the prison does not diminish the fine job done by 99% of our service people. Despite that, I do not want America known as a warring nation.
Our media output is amazing. Movies, TV programs, music, art works, you name it. We are prolific. However, much of it makes my skin crawl and embarrasses me as an American. I do not want the USA to be known primarily as the home of rap music and XXX rated movies.
We are rich. We have so many things. Cars, boats, houses, electronic toys, TV's, radios, MPEG players, etc. But that is not how I want the USA to be remembers around the world.
I want people to know us as loving, kind, gracious anf godly. Millions of your tax dollars are being used to send troops, rock music and propaganda to influence other nations. The best way to show them we care is by sending missionaries.
America as a whole is supporting international missions. Thanks to my readers and friends and their churches LifeWay has successfully taken the message of Jesus Christ to many nations. Thanks! Thanks! Thanks!
At age 66 I get physically tired and the jet lag is a problem but I cannot stop. God's love is so badly needed in Russia and Asia that I must go on. Because of our recent vigorous activities and support in Russia, however, our finances are very low. If you can get LifeWay placed in your churches budget we would greatly appreciate it.
I am Glad I could Help
This is a standard reply to those who thank us for a favor.
Harry: Thanks a lot for that hot meal you brought when my wife was sick.
Gary: You're welcome. I'm glad to help.
I grew up hearing this phrase and after answering God's call to travel internationally to strengthen the ministries of missionaries and pastors I really began to see what they meant. Churches in the United States are the wealthiest, strongest and most biblically literate on earth. Thankfully, we share our wealth with people and churches who need our support.
We could do more, much more. Only about 2 cents from every church dollar goes to minister to those outside the church leaving 98 cents for local salaries, buildings and programs. I thing at least 10% would be the biblical model and hope my readers will move in that direction.
I just returned from my twelfth trip to Russia and the leaders are truly grateful for what I bring to them. We send a monthly support check to Dr. Galina to support her and the Lifeways Russia Ministry but that is not enough. I suggested that since it is very costly for us to travel to Russia and we could save money by staying home and sending it over. Besides, I am getting old so maybe I need to stay at home more.
She said, "No! We need you to be with us. We need the knowledge, spiritual wisdom and encouragement that only you can bring. I want you to plan on coming here for at least another ten years. Thank you so much for all you do, especially since we are emotionally to the terrorists."
I am glad I can help.
If you, dear reader, are able to help the Russians, please add them to your prayer list and to the list of ministries you will support. Perhaps your church will support Lifeways Russia and move toward giving at least 10% of your budget to outreach.
This is a standard reply to those who thank us for a favor.
Harry: Thanks a lot for that hot meal you brought when my wife was sick.
Gary: You're welcome. I'm glad to help.
I grew up hearing this phrase and after answering God's call to travel internationally to strengthen the ministries of missionaries and pastors I really began to see what they meant. Churches in the United States are the wealthiest, strongest and most biblically literate on earth. Thankfully, we share our wealth with people and churches who need our support.
We could do more, much more. Only about 2 cents from every church dollar goes to minister to those outside the church leaving 98 cents for local salaries, buildings and programs. I thing at least 10% would be the biblical model and hope my readers will move in that direction.
I just returned from my twelfth trip to Russia and the leaders are truly grateful for what I bring to them. We send a monthly support check to Dr. Galina to support her and the Lifeways Russia Ministry but that is not enough. I suggested that since it is very costly for us to travel to Russia and we could save money by staying home and sending it over. Besides, I am getting old so maybe I need to stay at home more.
She said, "No! We need you to be with us. We need the knowledge, spiritual wisdom and encouragement that only you can bring. I want you to plan on coming here for at least another ten years. Thank you so much for all you do, especially since we are emotionally to the terrorists."
I am glad I can help.
If you, dear reader, are able to help the Russians, please add them to your prayer list and to the list of ministries you will support. Perhaps your church will support Lifeways Russia and move toward giving at least 10% of your budget to outreach.
Thursday, September 16, 2004
My Passion: Equipping People for Growth and Healing
I am a teacher. If I was offered a million dollars to do individual therapy if I would just quit teaching and consulting with churches I would turn it down. There is nothing better than doing what you love.
When I hear how my students and their students are helping people grow I get excited. I love to hear their stories. When they share stories of healing, change and salvation I get goose bumps.
Many years ago I was confused about who I was and what I wanted to do for a living. It was only through experience over time was I able to discover my call. God was preparing me to be a Christian trainer. For five years I was paid by three different school districts in Illinois to be a teacher, busd driver and basketball coach. I thought I was a teacher but Godwas just preparing me for what had in mind.
I was stumped and frustrated as a teacher in Ina, Illinois. There were 35 kids in my class. About half were in the Fifth Grade and half in the Sixth grade and I was supposedly teaching them math, English, spelling, language, reading and social studies as well as music, art and PE. Just imagine how challenging that was. The kids varied in IQ, motivation, social skills and study skills. Some came from homes that read, discussed world issues and religion while others had none of these experiences. And I was supposed to teach all of them the full range of subjects.
It was in Ina that I learned to equip rather than lecture. It was a matter of necessity not brilliance or educational philosophy. I simply could not teach these kids the way I was told to do in college. There were too many of them with different levels of ability and there were too many different subjects.
Sounds like the church.
Coaching sports also prepared me to be an equipper in the church. The coach cannot play the game so the players must be adequately prepared to play on their own. If my students can't write, read or do math unless I am with them I have failed. If my church colleagues cannot witness, pray for healing, minister grace and renew minds unless I am there I have failed as a Christian leader.
What are you doing as a leader?
Are you doing the stuff or equipping others to do it?
I am a teacher. If I was offered a million dollars to do individual therapy if I would just quit teaching and consulting with churches I would turn it down. There is nothing better than doing what you love.
When I hear how my students and their students are helping people grow I get excited. I love to hear their stories. When they share stories of healing, change and salvation I get goose bumps.
Many years ago I was confused about who I was and what I wanted to do for a living. It was only through experience over time was I able to discover my call. God was preparing me to be a Christian trainer. For five years I was paid by three different school districts in Illinois to be a teacher, busd driver and basketball coach. I thought I was a teacher but Godwas just preparing me for what had in mind.
I was stumped and frustrated as a teacher in Ina, Illinois. There were 35 kids in my class. About half were in the Fifth Grade and half in the Sixth grade and I was supposedly teaching them math, English, spelling, language, reading and social studies as well as music, art and PE. Just imagine how challenging that was. The kids varied in IQ, motivation, social skills and study skills. Some came from homes that read, discussed world issues and religion while others had none of these experiences. And I was supposed to teach all of them the full range of subjects.
It was in Ina that I learned to equip rather than lecture. It was a matter of necessity not brilliance or educational philosophy. I simply could not teach these kids the way I was told to do in college. There were too many of them with different levels of ability and there were too many different subjects.
Sounds like the church.
Coaching sports also prepared me to be an equipper in the church. The coach cannot play the game so the players must be adequately prepared to play on their own. If my students can't write, read or do math unless I am with them I have failed. If my church colleagues cannot witness, pray for healing, minister grace and renew minds unless I am there I have failed as a Christian leader.
What are you doing as a leader?
Are you doing the stuff or equipping others to do it?
Leaving Home
We cannot lead others farther than we have gone ourselves.
I work with many pastors, missionaries and families and and one thing is clear, if we have baggage with parents and siblings left over from childhood it will keep us from being free with our own kids and sabotage the health of any organization we try to lead. In every nation I visit I see some of the same patterns. Adults who are angry with a parent are emotionally impaired as parents and leaders.
One pattern is Reactive Rebellion. Adult children react against anything they think theat parent wants them to do. If the parent taught frugality the child will spend; if he preached religious piety the child will dislike church and God; if the parent was organized the child will be free or vice versa the child of footloose parents become rigid in their planning and structure.
But this is not all. The kid is emotionally reactive to the parent and others who seem to practice what the parent preaches. The reactivity may seem like anger or frustration but it is an automatic emotional disagreement from deep within the heart of the child.
How can we tell if we have grown up and emancipated from our parents? It is simple. If you can say, Dad, I am going to be a doctor even though you want me to be a doctor you have been healed. However, if you hear yourself say, "I will never do that or be like him" you can see that there is an automatic reaction of irrational feelings not a peaceful response to your own skills and call.
Many kids grow up in religious homes and "vow" never to be so religious because they want to be free. Their theme song is, "I gotta be free, I gotta be me..." However, the reactivity proves that they are actually slaves to their parent's wishes by doing the opposite. They are giving enormous power to the memory of the parent despite protestations to the contrary. They look at passive children and feel proud that they are free from parental pressures. But this is self-deception for the parent is just as much in charge of the rebel as the one who complies.
A couple came in to see an old teacher of mine and the man's left eye was swelled shut. Dr. F said, "I must ask about your eye. What happened?"
The man burst out in angry accusations about his wife and said, "She is killing me. Make her stop." With that, the professor said to his wife, "If you shut the other eye by next week i will personally give you a hundred dollars."
The man shouted, "Why did you tell her that? Now she will kill me for sure." to which Dr. F replied, "If you want to give her that much power over you body go right ahead." The next week he returned with both eyes open wide.
How much power over your life do you give your parents?
If you have a family skeleton in the closet why not make him dance?
We cannot lead others farther than we have gone ourselves.
I work with many pastors, missionaries and families and and one thing is clear, if we have baggage with parents and siblings left over from childhood it will keep us from being free with our own kids and sabotage the health of any organization we try to lead. In every nation I visit I see some of the same patterns. Adults who are angry with a parent are emotionally impaired as parents and leaders.
One pattern is Reactive Rebellion. Adult children react against anything they think theat parent wants them to do. If the parent taught frugality the child will spend; if he preached religious piety the child will dislike church and God; if the parent was organized the child will be free or vice versa the child of footloose parents become rigid in their planning and structure.
But this is not all. The kid is emotionally reactive to the parent and others who seem to practice what the parent preaches. The reactivity may seem like anger or frustration but it is an automatic emotional disagreement from deep within the heart of the child.
How can we tell if we have grown up and emancipated from our parents? It is simple. If you can say, Dad, I am going to be a doctor even though you want me to be a doctor you have been healed. However, if you hear yourself say, "I will never do that or be like him" you can see that there is an automatic reaction of irrational feelings not a peaceful response to your own skills and call.
Many kids grow up in religious homes and "vow" never to be so religious because they want to be free. Their theme song is, "I gotta be free, I gotta be me..." However, the reactivity proves that they are actually slaves to their parent's wishes by doing the opposite. They are giving enormous power to the memory of the parent despite protestations to the contrary. They look at passive children and feel proud that they are free from parental pressures. But this is self-deception for the parent is just as much in charge of the rebel as the one who complies.
A couple came in to see an old teacher of mine and the man's left eye was swelled shut. Dr. F said, "I must ask about your eye. What happened?"
The man burst out in angry accusations about his wife and said, "She is killing me. Make her stop." With that, the professor said to his wife, "If you shut the other eye by next week i will personally give you a hundred dollars."
The man shouted, "Why did you tell her that? Now she will kill me for sure." to which Dr. F replied, "If you want to give her that much power over you body go right ahead." The next week he returned with both eyes open wide.
How much power over your life do you give your parents?
If you have a family skeleton in the closet why not make him dance?
Wednesday, September 15, 2004
Healing Humpty's Hurting Heart
My recent visit to Russia along with the political campaign and the ceremonies marking 911 have had me in a reflective mood. I sure am glad I am not the President of the United States. It is a very tough job.
I am also thinking about the importance of healing the emotional wounds from past shock, trauma and abuse. With so much terror and warfare occurring I know from personal and professional experience that the pain inflicted today will resound from generation to generation until the peace of God reigns in the hearts of the victims and their children.
I spent two hours on Wednesday with Sherri Brock, an American living and serving as a missionary to abandoned children in Vologdova, Russia.I met Sherri during the retreat outside Moscow last month. Dr. Galina Chentsova, the head of Lifeways Russia, has been training Sherri and her team how to bring healing to the broken hearts of so many kids.
Sherri indicated that the members of the Lifeways Leadership Team experienced the healing touch of Christ during our Breaking Free workshop. They were especially blessed in the small groups during the times of waiting upon the Lord and sharing what He had said with other members.
Marie, a brilliant woman lawyer in her late thirties, was accidently locked in her dorm room by the roommate who did not realize she was in the toilet. Marie was stunned to discover that the door was locked and faced a critically important decision. What do I do to get out and join the workshop? This must sound very simple to us Americans. Just bang on the door and shout out for help. Someone is bound to hear and open the door.
But Marie is the child of Communist rule and systematic family abuse and making a decision to help herself was not easy. Any sort of assertive behavior in the past would have meant certain punishment by Communist authorities if done at work and by an evil father if done at home. No knowing whether an action will lead to success and rewards or failure and punishment leads people to develop what Dr. Martin Seligman calls, Learned Helplessness, a passive and depressive state of withdrawal from all attempts to change ones life.
So, Marie made one of the most healthy decisions of her life. She walked over to the door and gently and silently attempted to open it. One of the members of the class who was running late heard the noise and shouted, "Who is it?" Marie answered and the door was opened successfully.
But this is not the end of the story. After Rich and I went to bed the Russians spent hours drinking tea, talking, laughing and sharing insights. During one animated session Marie told the group that her bold action was proof that she had experienced a healing breakthough from God. "Before this I would have simply laid down and passively assumed that I deserved this terrible fate and accept the fact that I could not change the outcome."
The group asked Marie why she had not shouted and made a fuss but she insisted that such a thing was simply impossible. "My walking to the door and trying to get it open proves to me how much healing I have experienced. It is beyond anything I have ever done before and I am satisfied with that small change."
Healing is a long, slow process marked by many very small but significant changes in thinking, feeling and behaving. The next day Marie was bold enough to ask for the anointing with oil and laying on of hands for her physical healing as well. This was another bold move for she comes from a religious tradition that forbids such things.
Almost every one of the Lifeways Leadership Team experienced the gentle but powerful touch of God's healing love and power. Now they can help hundreds of other Russians have the same breakthough love in the groups and churches in which they serve.
Our latest book is, Hope and Change for Humpty Dumpty. Contact me for a signed copy.
If you can support Lifeways Russia contact us soon!
My recent visit to Russia along with the political campaign and the ceremonies marking 911 have had me in a reflective mood. I sure am glad I am not the President of the United States. It is a very tough job.
I am also thinking about the importance of healing the emotional wounds from past shock, trauma and abuse. With so much terror and warfare occurring I know from personal and professional experience that the pain inflicted today will resound from generation to generation until the peace of God reigns in the hearts of the victims and their children.
I spent two hours on Wednesday with Sherri Brock, an American living and serving as a missionary to abandoned children in Vologdova, Russia.I met Sherri during the retreat outside Moscow last month. Dr. Galina Chentsova, the head of Lifeways Russia, has been training Sherri and her team how to bring healing to the broken hearts of so many kids.
Sherri indicated that the members of the Lifeways Leadership Team experienced the healing touch of Christ during our Breaking Free workshop. They were especially blessed in the small groups during the times of waiting upon the Lord and sharing what He had said with other members.
Marie, a brilliant woman lawyer in her late thirties, was accidently locked in her dorm room by the roommate who did not realize she was in the toilet. Marie was stunned to discover that the door was locked and faced a critically important decision. What do I do to get out and join the workshop? This must sound very simple to us Americans. Just bang on the door and shout out for help. Someone is bound to hear and open the door.
But Marie is the child of Communist rule and systematic family abuse and making a decision to help herself was not easy. Any sort of assertive behavior in the past would have meant certain punishment by Communist authorities if done at work and by an evil father if done at home. No knowing whether an action will lead to success and rewards or failure and punishment leads people to develop what Dr. Martin Seligman calls, Learned Helplessness, a passive and depressive state of withdrawal from all attempts to change ones life.
So, Marie made one of the most healthy decisions of her life. She walked over to the door and gently and silently attempted to open it. One of the members of the class who was running late heard the noise and shouted, "Who is it?" Marie answered and the door was opened successfully.
But this is not the end of the story. After Rich and I went to bed the Russians spent hours drinking tea, talking, laughing and sharing insights. During one animated session Marie told the group that her bold action was proof that she had experienced a healing breakthough from God. "Before this I would have simply laid down and passively assumed that I deserved this terrible fate and accept the fact that I could not change the outcome."
The group asked Marie why she had not shouted and made a fuss but she insisted that such a thing was simply impossible. "My walking to the door and trying to get it open proves to me how much healing I have experienced. It is beyond anything I have ever done before and I am satisfied with that small change."
Healing is a long, slow process marked by many very small but significant changes in thinking, feeling and behaving. The next day Marie was bold enough to ask for the anointing with oil and laying on of hands for her physical healing as well. This was another bold move for she comes from a religious tradition that forbids such things.
Almost every one of the Lifeways Leadership Team experienced the gentle but powerful touch of God's healing love and power. Now they can help hundreds of other Russians have the same breakthough love in the groups and churches in which they serve.
Our latest book is, Hope and Change for Humpty Dumpty. Contact me for a signed copy.
If you can support Lifeways Russia contact us soon!
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