The Responsibility Triangle

We are seeing now in the Gulf States exactly what we always see when there are attempts to Rescue Victims from some kind of Problem or Persecutor. A certain percentage of the Victims will not only not thank the Rescuers, they will accuse them of being part of the Problem and the Rescuers will feel like the Victims. This is called, "The Responsibility Triangle."

I just saw a guy on Fox News who was Rescued from New Orleans. Some agency had spent time, money and placed its personnel in danger to Rescue this man from a serious Problem that he was having due to the hurricane.

After the initial Rescue, the Red Cross and other agencies spent time, money and sweat to put the man on a bus and send hi to Huston, Texas where they provided food, clothing and shelter, free of charge.

The Problem: Flooding

The Victim: This un-named man

The Rescuer: The Government and Red Cross

One would assume that the Victim would be ecstatic and thankful for those who saved his life and gave him the basics of life. BUT THAT IS NOT THE CASE. On national Television this man was cursing and attacking every single group that is working 24 x 7 to help him and others.

So, the Rescuers are accused of being the Problem and they must feel like they are being Victimized.

Why? He said that they are not doing enough. They SHOULD be giving him more money, more food, better food, a good job, better clothes, better housing and a lot more. "The Red Cross is bad the government is bad. We should be able to depend upon our government at a time like this to give us what we need. I only got $700.00 and they cut me off."

My nephew is a cop who says this happens all the time to police who answer calls to Rescue abused, Victimized wives from a Problem husband. However, if they arrest the man the wife will accuse the cops of being too rough or insensitive. Why do cops feel unappreciated? They are, not only unappreciated, they are blamed for causing the Problems, that is why.

This is why the USA accused of being a bully when we try to Rescue Victimized nations from Problem dictators.

This is why the ACLU accuse the USA, the cops and the military of worse crimes than the actual criminals.

This is why a pastor gets blamed when he tries to Rescue a Victim child from booze or drugs.

What should we do? Help people when absolutely essential but only then and never, ever expect to be applauded for your efforts. About 30% of any population loves to play the helpless, Victim Role and blame the Rescuers for being inept, inadequate and part of the problem.

They will always complain, attack, whine, cry and expect more so it is impossible to please them so do not try. Jesse Jackson loves to play this role and you will notice that he never, ever, tries to Rescue anyone. He never gives a penny of his personal fortune or a dollar of the billions he controls to help any person in need.

He never changes his tune of Blaming the Rescuers for failing to be perfect. It is a brilliant strategy for he never gets blamed for failing since he never, ever tries to help anyone.

You will notice that the whiners and weak sounding people who play the Victim Role run the world systems. They are much smarter than those of us who always try to Rescue. We are dumb as birds.